What are you struggling with in your life? What would you like to have instead?

I have decreased my usage of Quora for the past 4–5 months simply ( and I will be blunt) there is no appreciation or genuine liking of answers within the people who read. And I feel due to Quora’s logarithm, answers don't reach or is brought to attention therefore the answers get stagnated and somehow I feel discouraged to write. Trust me writing on Quora takes time and patience. And somehow I think my life is not that exciting or anything worthwhile happens that I can pen down. Nobody would like to read about my mundane day-to-day activities. No one does! And there are no experiences to share at all. I have become very boring and too an extent lazy that I don't push myself to do anything nor I feel tempted to write on Quora. My life is as same as the unending and stagnated traffic in OMR, Chennai.

Firstly, to address the elephant in the room, I have gained a good amount of weight and it is not a good sign if you ask me. Why? Because people suffering from PCOS or any hormonal issue shouldn't be gaining weight. And no matter, how much time I spend on doing yoga or going for a 30–45 minute walk, is not solving the issue. I was going through my earlier Quora answer about my weight loss or how I try to stay fit, it seems like a distant affair which I am not able to grasp or implement in my life. Like I have changed a lot in these few years.

Secondly, my shift of offices. Now I am travelling 21 kms up & down, 5 days a week and I am dead tired the moment I reach home. Work-wise, I love coming to this new office as the workflow is quite different from what I have done (and there is so much to learn) but the travelling is quite a challenge. But if you ask me, I will never disclose or bleat saying that I get dead tired!

How should you handle a situation where your friend tells you they like someone who also likes you? Should you tell them or continue as normal?

For me ‘struggling’ will be a big word, I would like to state I am trying to cope with the current situation.

P.S. There is a reason to write an answer after such a long time and that is one of my office people has switched on notification whenever I post an answer on Quora and when she enquired why am I not writing anymore, I felt that not all goes in vain, some stays!

Struggles are real and to overcome those it needs time. At the age of 30+, I need to figure out things and bring them to a proper line to understand what I need to do or prioritise.

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